How do you feel when you speak about sex?
WHY does it always feel weird to open my mouth or give my opinion when it comes to sex or sexual behavior?
Why does it seem more natural for Abdul to speak about sex more freely?
Why does Becky look nonchalant when sexual slurs intentionally spills from her mouth? (If you're reading this Becky, no offense intended. I just used a non-Muslim name.)
See. The thing is.
As women, we are naturally a bit shy to discuss these topics. Some may claim that we shouldn't discuss it because it would be vulgar. Others would claim that it wouldn't be our place or our opinions wouldn't matter. I claim freedom of expression.
It is one thing to feel shy being a woman when it comes to sex talk or sex education but it is a whole damn other thing when you're Muslim.
I must say that not tooooo many people would point out my gender or religion if they would hear me discuss sex but I do not feel COMPLETELY comfortable when I speak about it. The reason why this is not that tough for me is because I'm from South Africa and we live pretty modern lifestyles out here. If I had to be from Pakistan or Riyadh then it would not be so easy for me. Yes I just said easy. Why? Because rules and regulations are waaaaay more tough on women in many other places in the world.
Do you feel uncomfortable speaking about sex in a group? If yes, why?
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Why does it seem more natural for Abdul to speak about sex more freely?
Why does Becky look nonchalant when sexual slurs intentionally spills from her mouth? (If you're reading this Becky, no offense intended. I just used a non-Muslim name.)
See. The thing is.
As women, we are naturally a bit shy to discuss these topics. Some may claim that we shouldn't discuss it because it would be vulgar. Others would claim that it wouldn't be our place or our opinions wouldn't matter. I claim freedom of expression.
It is one thing to feel shy being a woman when it comes to sex talk or sex education but it is a whole damn other thing when you're Muslim.
I must say that not tooooo many people would point out my gender or religion if they would hear me discuss sex but I do not feel COMPLETELY comfortable when I speak about it. The reason why this is not that tough for me is because I'm from South Africa and we live pretty modern lifestyles out here. If I had to be from Pakistan or Riyadh then it would not be so easy for me. Yes I just said easy. Why? Because rules and regulations are waaaaay more tough on women in many other places in the world.
Do you feel uncomfortable speaking about sex in a group? If yes, why?
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